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Shay Refined was birthed after an intimate session with God. He told me that I needed to share my story and my growth with women around the world. My purpose here is to help other sisters in Christ as well as myself grow stronger in our faith regardless of the trials that we face.

Specifically, I will be discussing spiritual growth while dealing with chronic illnesses, mental illnesses, domestic and sexual abuse. My prayer is that through this website, we can all grow into the women of God that we were meant to be. To contact me please send an email to